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Found David Sharp in 1891
Horatio St Monk Wearmouth Durham
David Sharp age 35 b Lpool Rope Works
Sarah age 35 b Shoreditch London
Son John T age 15 b Farnworth
Son Robert age 3 b Stepney London
1901 6 Oxford St Sunderland
Heead Sarah Sharp age 43 b London Charwoman widow
Son Robert age 13 b London
Dau Lily age 7 b Sunderland
so Ellen has died.. and first son Robert too..now we have another Robert and a Lily
theres a marriage Mile End London David Sharp - Sarah Cheeseman
There is a Sarah M Cheeseman a servant born 1856 in All Hallows BARKING 1881 b London

if its the right marriage we know David was down in London...maybe he had nobody to look after Maud so took her to Samuel's, and met this Sarah.. then Maud didnt want to come back...
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