Im a new member not only of the forum, but I've also joined the Society today .

Im completely new to Family research, only being doing it for about 3 Months and have become addicted, so have loads to learn .. I am hoping some of you could give me some advice..and direction ??? or may even have the whiteheads in your family...
Tracing back on my fathers side, i have managed to get back to a Thomas Whitehead born in Liverpool in 1804 or 1805 ..
From the 1851 Census this gives all the children.
Name Thomas Whitehead
Age 47
Estimated Birth Year abt 1804
Relation Head
Gender Male
Where born Liverpool, Lancashire, England
Civil parish Liverpool
Town Liverpool
County/Island Lancashire
Country England
Registration district Liverpool
Sub-registration district Islington
ED, institution, or vessel 1bb
Household schedule number 116
Piece 2185
Folio 478
Page number 29
Household Members
Name Age
Thomas Whitehead 47
John Whitehead 21 - Son
James Whitehead 28
Daniel Whitehead 15
Elizabeth Whitehead 11
William Whitehead 10
Mary Whitehead 8
Ellen Whitehead 5
Thomas was living at 21 Burleigh Road North, Everton, West Derby when he died, 16 March 1886, with some of his children, ( have a copy of the Death certificate)
Im directly related to Daniel (Hughes) Whitehead. and believe I have confirmed all of Thomas's children details. However they all have the Middle name of Hughes
Im stuck in two directions.. 1) I know Thomas was married to an Elizabeth .. its on the 1841 Census, and she was about 5 years difference in age (but i know they rounded ages in 1841) - i can't identify Which Elizabeth he was married to .. I do know that she died before the 1851 Census (or left him ?) but thats the only entry on any of the census and he shows up as a widow..
I have contacted two direct descendants, through ancestry.com and we are all three stuck on Thomas and all have theories on who his wife may have been .. but we are all fairly new at family research ..
I know Thomas was a Tailor. (its been suggested he may have been an apprentice to a Hughes - but i can't find any such evidence)
so one theory i have been given is:
If he was born Born 20 Aug 1804 in Liverpool, he could have married an Elizabeth fazakerley, In the 1841 census, John Whitehead (11) the 2nd eldest child was staying 2 doors away with an Elizabeth Fazakerley (60) , in Plumbe street, were the family lived for all of thiner childhoods. Elizabeth would have been his grandmother .. She had a daughter Elizabeth.. she died a year after the youngest Daughter ellen was born . so all the dates are good, and she came from the same area of Liverpool BUT .the only marriage record i can find is Elizabeth to a Thomas Hughes ( originally born Thomas Griffiths) - and the Baptism record was changed showing him as illegitimate and changing the name back to his mothers name Hughes. She was Hanna Hughes.
If he is born 12 APR 1805, I have found a marridge to an Elizabeth Hughes, who would have died in the same year as ellen was born, so maybe in child birth ..but i can't find her exact date of death . But on Thomas's the death cert it says he was 82 so the maths does not add up with a birth date of 12 April 1805..i think this makes him 80, and he would have to be born in early 1804 or late 1803.. i have found a Thomas in 1803, but i can't connect him to all the Children ( on 2 from memory , and then only by first names ) .. so have almost discounted him ..
I can't identify the mothers maiden name from any of the children's details / records i have currently.. Maybe need to buy some Birth certificates ? but being new to this would they show me the maiden name of the mother or any other important details .. ? also not sure how to get one even .. ?
On the second point, I can't identify the potential farther of either Thomas, but i believe it could be Edmund Whitehead .. baptised on 15th March 1778 in Newton Heath, All Saints, Manchester, England and he became a marble mason .. but this is only a hunch ... i can't find any more records of him, in the Liverpool area .., or a death date .. so really its a guess really from looking at all the whiteheads form Lancashire and their locations and birth dates.. and from some of the trees i have seen online ..
Any advice on what i could do next to identify Thomas would be gratefully appreciated .I've tried the online parish records, ancestor.com My heritage and find my past ..plus a few others so far .. as Ive said - I'm a complete beginner ... so don't know were to go from here. So any guidance and suggestions would be gratefully received ..

Think this is long enough for a First Post !! - sorry for war and Peace .. but Ive loads more details, records etc so if I've missed something off that would really help suggesting a next step , please let me know ??
Kind Regards
DAVE